Divorce in the Rearview Mirror
As I approach my fourth year of being divorced, I can’t help but feel a sense of pride and accomplishment. Although the road has been rocky, I’d have to say I’m better off for it. Since leaving my marriage, I’ve created a life that feels right for me. Four years ago, I was grappling with my reality.
I’ve allowed my love for travel to take me on some great adventures. I’ve braved ATV rides and zip-lining in the most beautiful areas of Mexico and the Caribbean. The most breathtaking sunset I’ve ever seen was above the clouds in Maui—my pictures don’t even do it justice. I can still remember the calmness of a morning walk on South Beach. After a night out, I took a walk through Manhattan—and I wasn’t afraid.
Conquering a lifelong fear of public speaking has been a beautiful struggle. Since then, I’ve had the opportunity to speak at a Juneteenth event at a vocational school. Later, the director told me they usually have to work hard to keep the students quiet—but not that day. Last year, I was honored to serve as the keynote speaker for an organization’s inaugural fundraising gala, where I was presented with an award by their celebrity host. This year, I had the honor of speaking on the USC campus about the journey of writing my memoir. So yes, I’m now an author who gets to share my story with the world.
I’m currently serving on the board of a domestic violence organization as Head of Community Relations. I’ve learned so much in just a few short months and met some truly awesome people who also have a heart for helping others. It’s created a network of dynamic individuals. But most importantly, I’m serving a community that is too often left in the shadows of life. They deserve to feel safe and seen.
I came into 2025 with a goal of completing a life coaching certification—and I’ve done just that. I’m now developing projects around group sessions. I want to partner with people to help them get back into the game of life. I deeply understand how difficult it can be to shift after a life-changing experience.
The last four years have been incredibly rewarding. I’ve moved beyond my own challenges and worked steadily toward my goals. It wasn’t easy, but the journey was worth every minute. I’m grateful for the lessons and the experiences. I wouldn’t trade them for anything.
Regina H.